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Are you using the wrong motivations with your kids?

A child-rearing conundrum every parent faces is how to motivate their children; be it to learn, or take out the trash. How do you persuade them to want to read, study, and develop a work ethic?

We often fall back on the same methods to motivate:motivation

  • Reward
  • Punishment
  • Competition

The problem is that these methods are based on faulty assumptions:

  • Rewards assume that the child knows how to do the work, they just need an incentive.
  • Punishment assumes that the child knows how to do the work, but they refuse to do it.
  • Competition is only an incentive when the child is already convinced that they can win.

So what is the answer?

To find the answer, you must start with the question- “What is motivation?”

The simplest definition is based on the root word “move”. To motivate or be motivated is to induce some kind of action.

However, there are two kinds of motivation – external and internal. We often make the mistake of thinking that if we use the proper external motivation, internal motivation will follow. It isn’t that there is no place for external motivations, but a dependence of rewards, punishment, or competition is little more than shallow behavior modification.

External motivations also ignore the fact that sometimes kids do not progress because they aren’t ready to progress. There are physical and mental factors to take into consideration any time a child is struggling in some area. Instead of pressuring them with punishment, distracting them with a prize, or humiliating them with the stress of competition, address the issue itself.

  • Is the curriculum or learning method you are using working for this child?
  • Do they simply need more practice?
  • Is there a developmental issue that needs to be addressed, like eye-hand coordination, focus, self-control, or critical thinking?
  • Have you demonstrated the task you’d like them to accomplish, and explained why it is important?
  • Do they clearly understand your expectations?

Choosing the best method of motivation is the difference between a child who is learning a skill merely to fill in a sticker chart or keep from getting grounded, and the child who learns in order to advance to higher levels of skill or be a contributing member of the family. The second dynamic is obviously our goal, but we have to view it as a goal if we expect our kids to see it as a goal.

Are we modeling self-motivated behavior? Do we only do what we have to do in order to get by, or when there is a reward or payback in it for us? If we aren’t inspired by the intrinsic value of learning and serving others, how can we expect our children to learn for the joy of learning and the prospect of becoming better students, better human beings? Children will internalize more than just phonics rules and math facts from us – they will be affected by our behavior and attitudes toward learning new things, as well as fulfilling our responsibilities.

External motivators aren’t without some value, so don’t throw away the chore charts and stop rewarding them for their labor. However, think about moving away from traditional methods of motivation, and begin to lay a better foundation of intrinsic self-motivation with:

  • clearly defined goals that give kids direction and purpose 
  • wisdom and patience in addressing developmental issues
  • the tools they need to continue experiencing progress
  • a connection to a vision of their future
  • ownership of, and therefore responsibility for, their education
 

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Review of Lone Star Learning – Target the Question

Motivating students in the morning is sometimes the most difficult part of the day. Want a great jump start activity to get mental muscles warmed up for school? Among the many educational products offered by Lone Star Learning, we were given Target the Question Digital to review, and found it to be an enjoyable way to engage our brains and enhance our thinking skills.

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Target the Question Digital is an online program geared to systematically practice and strengthen problem solving skills using real life scenarios. It isn’t enough that students have memorized math fact families, or learned to add, subtract, multiply, and divide – they need to know when and how to apply these operations.

After you choose the desired grade level (from grades 1 through 7) and purchase the subscription ($59.99 for one year), you have access to your dashboard which shows your subscription and the date it expires. You can also view your assigned product licenses and basic account settings.

We worked with the 4th grade level of Target the Question Digital. The program itself starts with the Problem of the Week screen, with boxes numbered one through forty, one for each week.

Target the Question Problem of the Week

It is important to work through this program in order, as each week the problems increase in complexity. Choose a week, and you will see the question and the menu for the week.

At the top of the screen the basic problem is presented, based on every day activities like monetary transactions, or calculating time or distance. Also included is a visual, such as the receipt pictured for Week #23, as the basis for the questions. Others may have a chart, graph, or map to illustrate the Problem of the Week.

Target the Question problem screen

I learned a long time ago not to take for granted that my kids understood common terms just because they heard these words on a regular basis. Each Problem of the Week makes a great little vocabulary lesson. For the above question, we talked about the parts of a receipt and the purpose it serves as a record of your transaction. We also noted the way items are described and packaged- as gallons, jars, loaves, by the dozen or the pound.

At the bottom of the screen are the days of the week. Choose the day and a question appears highlighted below the problem graphic.

Another feature of the program is the ability to ‘draw’ on the screen itself, or use the ‘drawing pad’. We used a mouse or touchpad to sketch out the process of finding the solution, or work relevant math problems. Above, on Monday, the question was “What is the cost of 1 gallon of juice?” You can see on the receipt that 4 gallons of juice were purchased for $12, and as we discussed how to solve the problem, we drew it on the virtual pad on screen. We could also use different colors of ink to work out different parts of the problems. It’s a great way to show how to think through a problem step-by-step and discourage guessing.

Target the Question problem screen

On Wednesday the question involved working with time, and we examined possible ways to find the solution. You can see how we chose to work out the answer. Then on Friday we again focused on the information we needed for this particular problem.

Target the Question problem screen

If you or your student have questions about how to use the Problem of the Week screen, the Help button creates a graphic that shows the purpose of each feature of the menu.

Even though we used Target the Question Digital for the 4th grade level, it was fun to talk about the different scenarios together, or have my older kids coach their younger brother through the various problems presented. Each week became more challenging, with complex problems and situations to work through. Programs like this offer a unique opportunity to evaluate your child’s critical thinking skills in small daily doses that only take about 10-15 minutes to complete. We used it as an opening exercise for school, but it would also serve as a great warm up before using one’s regular math curriculum.

There were a few days that the kids just wanted to keep going and work through the whole week’s problems. When kids say “More!”, I say “Why not?”

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Homeschooling and The Social Contract

I’ve heard so much lately about how home education is an abandonment of ‘the social contract’ and as such is a selfish, near-sighted endeavor.

“Compassion blahblahblah democracy blahblah societal elite blahblahblahblah”.

Oh, and John Dewey.

Let’s just cut to the chase- those who toss around the words ‘social contract’ don’t really know what that term means. They have this general idea that to maintain a cohesive society, we should always make decisions and act in ways that benefit the public good. Sounds great, right? Why wouldn’t a person act to benefit the public good?  No one in their right mind, especially a Christian who claims to be an emissary of Jesus Christ, would come out and say, “No, I absolutely refuse to think of others when I make decisions. It’s all about me, baby.”

Recently, Tony Jones, Puddin’ Stirrer Extraordinaire, stated that  ’the social contract’ is violated “If you repeatedly make decisions that put your family ahead of the other families that surround you…

For those who believe Tony’s definition of ‘social contract’ is valid, what are you willing to do to live out that directive? Are you going to sell your house and move to the inner city, send your kids to the lowest performing inner city school, give your discretionary income to feed the poor, provide them with medical care, and your free time to find them meaningful employment?

Give up cable television? Or your iPhone?

Of course not- because you are putting yourself and your family first. Everyone draws the line at ‘public good’ somewhere.

This just in: So does Tony.

I imagine, however, that his blog traffic and comments went through the ceiling. Apparently, when catching flies, vinegar works just fine. So much for acting in the cause of the ‘greater good’ with posts like “Death to Homeschooling” and “Why Homeschoolers Don’t Understand Missional“. Sure- he’s just all about “peace, love, and understanding”.

But wait- in the next breath, Tony adds a disclaimer: “No, I don’t think you should raise your kids among drug addicts because you might help the drug addicts. We have not decided as a society to publicly fund the healing and reparation of all drug addicts.”

Oh, well okay then. The ‘social contract’ only covers certain tax-payer funded federal programs. Everyone else, I suppose, can go to blazes, because they aren’t part of a government program that Tony believes Christians should be involved in.

Tony has apparently never heard of CSAT. He must not get out much. Maybe he got rid of his car in order to support public transportation. Hmmm…

In answer to the criticism that Tony was putting his kids out there while he sat nice and comfy and detached at the private, religious universities where he teaches, he answers,

..my children are not my proxies. Their education in public school has necessitated my own involvement in that institution — on the PTA, as a volunteer, and as a generally engaged parent. Sometimes I wonder if homeschooling is a choice that parents make to allow their own adult avoidance of rolling up their sleeves and making public schools better.

Sorry, but Tony’s children are his proxies. See, Tony is “theologian-in-residence at Solomon’s Porch in Minneapolis and an adjunct professor at Fuller Theological Seminary and at Andover Newton Theological School.” He has obviously not rolled up his sleeves to make his local schools better. Why isn’t he teaching in a public school, instead of a private, religious one? By his own definition he is putting his interests ahead of other families whose children would benefit from his expertise. If Tony really believed in putting the needs of other above his own, he’d be putting his desk chair where his mouth is.

But let’s get back to the basics- the idea of a ‘social contract’ has nothing to do with sending one’s children to public school.

The social contract is, however, foundational to our American system of government. Because we are a representative democracy, the will of the citizenry directs and empowers the government, and as such should always seek the good of its citizens.

The social contract preserves our natural and our Constitutional rights to life, liberty, and property. These rights are not granted by government, they are merely recognized by our government. We cannot be deprived of these rights without due process of law, nor are we to attempt to infringe on the rights of others to their life, liberty, or property through force or fraud. Or in Tony Jones’ case, provocative put-downs and an attempt at intimidation-by-blog.

To decide and endeavor to do what is best for our family is an embrace and celebration of the social contract. We are free to act in our own best interests, and we are free to choose how we will use our resources and abilities to minister to others.

If we believe that a local school, public or private, provides the best opportunities for our children, we are free to send them there. If we want to move to a different district with even better academic programs, then by all means, call Re/Max. If we believe that by educating them at home, we can provide them with academic advantages, then we are free to opt out of the system (which still receives our tax dollars, by the way).

If the social contract demands that we seek opportunities to serve others, there are better ways than sending one’s children to a public school. How about volunteering at a local mission or an agency that provides service dogs to the disabled? There are organizations that need volunteers to help build houses, or give various kinds of assistance to the elderly. Some charities specialize in gathering handmade items for children in hospitals or who have experienced trauma.

If you want to be involved in and support your local school system, vote “Yes” on levies, attend school board meetings, buy oranges and candy bars and popcorn when they come knockin’ on your door, and attend games, plays, and rallies. Homeschoolers do these things all the time.

It’s the word ‘home’ that really seems to confuse guys like Tony. We have cars, ya’ know.

School is about education, parenting is about nurturing good character, being a human is about caring for others, and being a Christian is about sharing the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

And homeschoolers can wear all of these hats at the same time.

For a legitimate, scholarly treatment of the social contract, read Social Contract Theory by Celeste Friend, Hamilton College.

 

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Writing Skills: more than putting pen to paper

Rolled eyes. Sighs. Dropped shoulders.

Sound anything like your student’s response when you assign an essay or report?

Or perhaps they sit down with a good attitude, but after hours of focusing on their paper or computer screen, there are only a few vague lines of text?

Effective communication is essential to more than one’s vocation. Every relationship, every task, depends on the clear communication and understanding of ideas. One of the ways we communicate is the written word. Whether we are using actual pen and paper or a keyboard, the same skills apply to the process.

The understanding and use of our language is a core skill. While a student may not love to write essays, or be the next Ernest Hemingway, they can develop competency in writing that isn’t boring or painful.

The question isn’t just about how we should teach writing in our homeschools, but how do kids gain the ability to write coherent, well-crafted essays and reports that reveal deeper thinking about the topic?

To start, we must lay a good foundation in language. Reading and writing go hand in hand. While it doesn’t necessarily follow that a child who loves to read will also become a child who loves to write, reading good literature gives a child an ‘ear’ for language. They learn to recognize good sentence structure, discerning the meaning of words from the context, the organization of ideas, as well as the fun stuff of language- a play on words, figures of speech, colloquialisms and cliches. The more a child is familiar and comfortable with language, the less likely they will dread learning how to use it themselves.

Next, as children are learning to form letters on paper and navigate a keyboard, give them time to master penmanship and keyboarding before expecting their spelling and grammar to be up to par. Quite often children are more focused on the physical task itself than if the letters are in the right place. Don’t stress them out with what to them is major multitasking. Allow their eye/hand, left brain/right brain coordination to mature to proficiency.

The mechanics of language – grammar, spelling, capitalization, and punctuation – must also be taught. These are the building blocks of writing in the same way that phonics and phonemic awareness are to reading. We don’t need to bog kids down in a pile of predicate nominatives, and infinity of infinitives, or a passel of participles, but they do need to know that English has a system and structure expressed in our rules of grammar and usage.

Finally, we must set aside an accumulation of customary classroom method stumblingblocks. Writing skills are often taught separately from other subjects, and not enough time is spent  practicing the craft of creating an organized paragraph, a logical argument, or articulate prose. Little depth of understanding of content is required for many writing assignments, resulting in a rather dull and strained narrative. Traditional textbooks often rely on multiple choice questions, fill-in-the-blank worksheets, or the student’s memory of short highlighted quotes from the text to answer questions about the topic. This fails to engage the student in more than one way.

Original work, especially when creative license is given, assists in developing many areas necessary for good communication in writing:

  • Students must translate their own ideas into words.
  • Original work compels the student to organize their thoughts into words, sentences, and paragraphs.
  • Putting something in writing assumes that it will be read and assessed by someone else, thus increasing self-awareness of its substance.
  • They are continually practicing the mechanics of good grammar and sentence structure.
  • Students can be encouraged to find and develop their own voice or writing style.
  • During the editing process, the child can learn how to arrange and rearrange ideas to convey focus and emphasis.

There are a few simple ways to help our kids not only develop their writing skills, but enjoy the process and reap a sense of accomplishment.

Use reading material of high quality, and challenge their reading level. Don’t let them stick with easy books in their age range – introduce them regularly to stories that contain advanced vocabulary and complex ideas. A great way to do this is scheduling regular oral reading time together. Don’t hand them Arthur Conan Doyle or Jane Austen and send them to their rooms. Discover the classics together.

Copy work and dictation can also help students develop their ear for language. It also gives them more time to practice good penmanship without the pressure of creating the actual content. Use classic poetry and prose, as well as the Bible.

Use fill-in-the-blank worksheets to teach note-taking and outlining.

Skip fill-in-the-blank worksheets in favor of short essays.

Start with short paragraphs, using resources such as Create Better Writers to teach basic principles of composition.

Show them how to go beyond simple sentences. By beginning sentences with If, Unless, Although, and joining sentences with conjunctions like but, because, for, yet, or, and so, students are forced to more seriously consider how they can connect related and opposing thoughts. Don’t let them stop with a few adjectives to add detail; use appositives to describe the subject.

Instead of the usual book reports, energize their creativity by asking them to analyze theme, write a character sketch, outline plot points on a chart, or rewrite a scene or an ending that is more to their liking, and be able to explain their choice.

Don’t fall back on research and report writing to teach a subject. Teach - and then let the student express what they’ve learned in a research paper or report. It can be frustrating to try to write about a complex subject with limited information and perspective. Point out important aspects of the topic being studied, and then urge them to do more than summarize, but offer their own analysis and opinion. Let them use writing to ask “What if” questions about people, places, events, and ideas.

Use research and report writing to teach. Some topics lend themselves to self-directed learning. Not only can they research with typical reference works, but point them toward different resources for information, such as primary source documents, professionals, teachers, librarians, experts and those with personal experience, and reputable biographies. Allow them to form a hypothesis, do their own experimentation, and explain their outcomes.

Spend less time looking for correct/incorrect conclusions, and more time assessing their use of language. This one can be tough for parent/teachers. Be careful about dampening creativity and discouraging the normal youthful struggle of learning about the world and their place in it. Obviously it is appropriate to point out inaccuracies, and I would be very concerned about a paper titled “The Holocaust Was Awesome”, but letting them explore the substance of issues and express their opinions freely not only releases them from the added (and artificial) pressure of ‘pleasing the teacher’, but will help you as the parent/teacher to gain insight into their thought processes. The point of writing is language - not parroting ‘approved’ ideas.

Write more by writing more often. Don’t assign a 5-page essay until they’ve mastered the Five Paragraph Essay. Do small scale, fun, and creative writing projects to increase their competency and comfort level with writing.

  • Compose a commercial for a preferred product or place to visit.
  • Write fan-fiction scenes from a favorite book or movie.
  • Have them imagine they are running for a political office and compose a campaign speech.
  • Design short essays to provoke specific emotions- humor, joy, sadness, fear.
  • Compose a dialogue between characters from different books and different genres.
  • Describe a recent family or church event.
  • Interview a local professional about their job.
  • Explain a procedure in step-by-step detail.

Analyze and evaluate a variety of points of view on controversial topics. This is WAY scary to many parents. We don’t want to expose our children to strange and potentially harmful ideas. We want them grounded in truth, so we show them nothing but what we consider to be good and true. In my opinion, this can severely stunt a child’s ability to learn critical thinking skills. They need to learn how to discern ‘spin’, straw man arguments, logical fallacies, hyperbole, ad hominem attacks, appeals to coincidence, similarity, and false authority, confusion of correlation and causation, and other fallacious debate tactics. We can do this by examining opposing arguments and discussing complex issues. After all, if what we believe is true, it should be able to stand up to a certain amount of age-appropriate challenge. The internet is chock-full-o-experts, self-declared and otherwise, who have given voice to and published their opinions on religion, politics, parenting, education, the environment, nutrition… there is no lack of material for this exercise.

Children come into this world with many gifts, but it is our job as parents to nurture those gifts, to help them mature and bear their full potential. Children will not spontaneously reel out pages of coherent thought without being shown the tools of the writing trade, taught how to use them, and then given the time to practice, just as we would any other instrument. Teach writing as much more than pen to paper or words on a screen.

Words can create worlds- what universe has your child made today?

 

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Review of “I Don’t Have Enough Faith to Be an Atheist”

It isn’t enough to know what we believe- we must know why we believe it. I Don’t Have Enough Faith to Be an Atheist and the accompanying workbook fulfill that need by providing a thorough study of Christian apologetics.

Apologetics is “the discipline of defending a position (often religious) through the systematic use of 
information.” Apologia Educational Ministries seeks to provide parents with resources that help them give their children a solid foundation for their faith. I Don’t Have Enough Faith to Be an Atheist by Norman L. Geisler and Frank Turek asks and answers some of the most challenging questions of our time.

For our family, Monday morning is our Bible study time. By setting aside an entire morning, we are able to read and thoroughly discuss Scriptural topics. We had dedicated this year to an in-depth study of apologetics, so receiving I Don’t Have Enough Faith to Be an Atheist was like an answer to prayer.

The book itself is organized, comprehensive, and intriguing. Each section begins with a logical 12-point outline of why Biblical Christianity can be proven as truth, and each chapter covers points and subpoints of that outline. This gave us a clear picture of where we were at and where we were going with our studies. Each chapter ends with a summary of the salient points covered so we could easily review and verify our understanding of the content. The content itself purposefully and thoughtfully engaged our minds and hearts to consider and answer foundational questions:

The authors offer many personal examples of situations where they and others have had to grapple with these kinds of questions. This further illustrates how we must be “ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the hope that is in you…” (1 Peter 3:15) and it is always helpful to hear the real life application of the information and counsel given, and feel a connection with the authors.

For homeschoolers, the notes, bibliography, and Scripture references indexed in the back of the book provide a wealth of information and source material for further study. Speaking of further study- the workbook is a true blessing. It gives the parent guidance for using the book, as well as supplemental material, study questions, vocabulary words, and thought-provoking writing activities.

The workbook recommends taking 2-3 weeks to cover each chapter. Even though we set aside an entire morning for Bible study each week, it is a subject we do together, so  it will probably take us a bit longer than that to cover this material in depth with our kids. I found that our 10 year old was able to grasp quite a bit of the material and could answer some of the questions. This subject is very challenging, but it is not so over-your-head that a younger child can’t take in some of the principles taught. However, the course material and assignments are definitely geared toward the high schooler.

The workbook also includes a variety of profiles of influential people, such as Carl Sagan, C. S. Lewis, Benedict Spinoza, Isaac Newton, Tiberius Caesar, Mother Teresa, Adolph Hitler, and Mohammad, as well as notes on the impact of archaeology and the discovery of documents such as the Dead Sea Scrolls on our understanding of the past and our Biblical heritage.

Most importantly, the workbook asks questions to help both students and parents internalize what they’ve learned.

There is also a DVD series based on the book featuring author Frank Turek, and a free answer key to all of the questions in the workbook, chapter tests, and chapter test answer keys on the Apologia website (the password for access to these additional materials is in the workbook).

The book, I Don’t Have Enough Faith to Be an Atheist, (447-page trade paperback) is $16.00, and the workbook (279-page sturdy spiral-bound) is $33.00.

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